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California Bereavement Leave: How Many Days You Get and Whether It’s Paid

California employee receiving support after the death of a family member during bereavement leave September 18, 2026

Table of Contents
  1. Key Takeaways
  2. How Many Days of Bereavement Leave Can You Take?
  3. Who Counts as a “Family Member” for Bereavement Leave?
  4. Is Bereavement Leave Paid in California?
  5. Which Employers Have to Provide Bereavement Leave?
  6. Can Your Employer Ask for Proof?
  7. What If Your Employer Denies or Retaliates Against Your Leave?
  8. How Bereavement Leave Differs From Other California Leave Laws
  9. Grieving Shouldn’t Cost You Your Job
  10. Frequently Asked Questions
    1. Do I have to use all five bereavement days at once?
    2. Does bereavement leave apply to the death of an in-law?
    3. Can a small business refuse bereavement leave?
    4. What if my employer’s policy only gives three paid days?
    5. Is there a deadline to take the leave?

Losing a family member is one of the hardest experiences a person can face. The last thing you should have to worry about is whether taking time off will cost you your job. Since January 1, 2023, California law has protected your right to grieve. This article explains how California bereavement leave generally works.

What Is Bereavement Leave in California?

California employees are entitled to up to five days of bereavement leave when a family member dies. Under Government Code section 12945.7, this right applies to employees who have worked at least 30 days for an employer with five or more employees. You do not have to take the days consecutively.

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Key Takeaways

  • California employees can take up to 5 days of bereavement leave upon the death of a qualifying family member, under Gov. Code § 12945.7.
  • The law covers employees at any business with 5 or more employees who have worked there at least 30 days.
  • “Family member” includes a spouse, child, parent, sibling, grandparent, grandchild, domestic partner, or parent-in-law.
  • The leave may be unpaid, but you may use vacation, personal leave, accrued and available sick leave, or compensatory time off that is otherwise available.
  • Your employer cannot retaliate against you for taking bereavement leave. Doing so is an unlawful employment practice.

How Many Days of Bereavement Leave Can You Take?

You can take up to five days of bereavement leave for the death of a family member. Under Government Code section 12945.7(b), it is an unlawful employment practice for an employer to refuse this request.

You also do not need to take the five days all at once. The law specifically allows non-consecutive days. For example, you could take three days for the funeral and two more days later to handle the estate or attend a memorial. The only timing rule is that you must complete the leave within three months of the date of death.

Who Counts as a “Family Member” for Bereavement Leave?

California defines “family member” broadly for bereavement leave. Under the statute, you are entitled to leave upon the death of your:

  • Spouse
  • Child
  • Parent
  • Sibling
  • Grandparent
  • Grandchild
  • Domestic partner
  • Parent-in-law

Gov. Code § 12945.7(a)(3) sets this list. It is broader than many company policies written before 2023, which often covered only a spouse, child, or parent. So if your employer’s older policy leaves out a grandparent or sibling, state law still protects you. California law specifically prohibits retaliation, discrimination, or interference because an employee exercised their bereavement leave rights.

Is Bereavement Leave Paid in California?

Bereavement leave may be unpaid, but you have the right to use your existing paid time to cover it. The answer depends on your employer’s policy:

  • If your employer has a paid bereavement policy, you take the leave under that policy.
  • If there is no policy, the leave may be unpaid. However, you may choose to use vacation, personal leave, accrued and available sick leave, or compensatory time off to be paid during your absence.
  • If a policy provides fewer than five paid days, you are still entitled to a total of five days. The extra days may be unpaid, and again you can use your accrued paid time to cover them.

These rules come directly from Gov. Code § 12945.7(e). The key point is simple. Even when the leave itself is unpaid, your employer cannot stop you from using paid time you have already earned, including any paid sick leave you have accrued.

Which Employers Have to Provide Bereavement Leave?

The law applies to any employer with five or more employees, as well as to the state and its cities and counties. To qualify, you must have worked for the employer for at least 30 days before your leave begins.

There is one narrow exception. Suppose a collective bargaining agreement covers you, already provides equivalent bereavement leave, and meets specific wage requirements. In that case, your union contract may satisfy the statute’s terms instead.

Can Your Employer Ask for Proof?

California worker consulting an employment attorney about a denied bereavement leave request

Yes. If your employer requests documentation, you have 30 days from the first day of leave to provide it. Acceptable proof is broad and includes:

  • A death certificate
  • A published obituary
  • Written verification of death, burial, or memorial services from a mortuary, funeral home, burial society, crematorium, religious institution, or government agency

Your employer must keep both your leave request and any documentation confidential. It may disclose them only to internal personnel or counsel as necessary, or as required by law, per Gov. Code § 12945.7(f) and (i).

What If Your Employer Denies or Retaliates Against Your Leave?

Refusing bereavement leave, or punishing you for taking it, is illegal. The statute makes it an unlawful employment practice for an employer to refuse to hire, discharge, demote, fine, suspend, expel, or otherwise discriminate against you for exercising your right to bereavement leave. The same applies if you give information or testimony about it. Likewise, your employer cannot interfere with, restrain, or deny your attempt to take the leave.

If your employer denied your leave, fired you for taking it, or took other retaliation against you, you may have a claim. Our attorneys can review what happened and explain your options. If you are located in California, an attorney on our team can help you understand whether your firing was unlawful.

How Bereavement Leave Differs From Other California Leave Laws

Bereavement leave is separate and distinct from leave under the California Family Rights Act (CFRA). Taking bereavement leave does not use up your CFRA leave, and different rules govern the two. If you need extended time to care for a seriously ill family member before their passing, that may fall under CFRA instead. For a full comparison, see our article on CFRA vs. FMLA in California. And if you need partial wage replacement while caring for a seriously ill family member, you may qualify for California Paid Family Leave, a separate benefit from bereavement leave.

Grieving Shouldn’t Cost You Your Job

If your employer denied your bereavement leave or retaliated against you for taking time to grieve, you have rights. You also do not have to navigate this alone. At Abramson Labor Group, we represent California employees in wrongful termination and workplace retaliation matters. Based in Burbank, we serve employees across California in English and Spanish, and we have earned more than 1,900 Google reviews. Consultations are free, and we work on contingency, so you do not pay anything unless we win.

Request a free case evaluation to discuss what happened and whether you have a claim.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I have to use all five bereavement days at once?

No. The law allows non-consecutive days. For example, you can take some days for the funeral and the rest later, as long as you complete all leave within three months of the death.

Does bereavement leave apply to the death of an in-law?

Yes for a parent-in-law, which the statute expressly lists. However, the bereavement leave law does not name other in-laws, such as a sibling-in-law.

Can a small business refuse bereavement leave?

The bereavement leave requirement generally applies to private employers with five or more employees, as well as state and local public employers. Eligible employees of covered employers are entitled to up to five days of bereavement leave, although certain statutory exceptions may apply, including for some public employees and employees covered by qualifying collective bargaining agreements. Businesses with fewer than five employees generally are not covered by California’s bereavement leave requirement.

What if my employer’s policy only gives three paid days?

You are still entitled to a total of five days. The first three follow the paid policy. For the remaining two, you may use vacation, personal leave, accrued and available sick leave, or compensatory time off that is otherwise available.

Is there a deadline to take the leave?

Yes. You must complete bereavement leave within three months of the date of the family member’s death.

This article is general information about California law, not legal advice. Every situation is different. For advice about your specific case, talk to a licensed California employment attorney.

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